Divorce can feel like the end of love, leaving many questioning whether they will ever find a meaningful relationship again. However, Rebecca Whitman, a success mentor, best-selling author, and newlywed, believes that midlife can be the perfect time to attract a soulmate. Having gone through her own journey of healing and transformation, she now teaches women how to rebuild confidence, let go of past heartache, and step into a fulfilling and lasting love.
Rebecca’s seven Pillars of Abundance; Spiritual, Physical, Emotional, Romantic, Mental, Social, and Financial—form the foundation of her “Balanced, Beautiful, Abundant” approach. She stresses that women improve their general well-being, vitality, and energy when they achieve consistency in these areas, laying the groundwork for lasting connections. According to her, the secret to manifesting love is not searching; it is about aligning with the type of person you want to be to attract a loving and supportive partner.
Creating the Right Energy for Love
Finding the ideal relationship after divorce involves much more than meeting new people; it is also about preparing yourself for the type of love you desire.
Rebecca helps women:
Heal from Past Relationships: Resentment or fear from a previous marriage can prevent you from finding new love. Rebecca encourages women to acknowledge their emotions, work through past pain, and embrace forgiveness.
Build self-worth: Confidence is essential in attracting healthy relationships. Many women leave marriages feeling emotionally drained, but Rebecca’s approach helps them rebuild their self-worth, prioritize self-care, and recognize their true value.
Define What They Want: Clarity leads to success. Many women enter new relationships without truly knowing what they need. Rebecca teaches them to set clear standards and focus on the qualities that truly matter in a life partner.
Live With Joy Now: Instead of waiting for a relationship to bring happiness, Rebecca advises women to cultivate joy, adventure, and fulfillment on their own. When they embody the love they wish to receive, they naturally attract the right people.
She believes love isn’t about co-dependency—it’s about knowing you deserve a relationship that enhances your life, not one that completes it.
Taking Steps Toward Love
Midlife is a time of self-awareness and fresh opportunities. Rebecca guides women to accept love with an open heart and a proactive mindset. She encourages:
Shifting Perspective: Divorce isn’t a failure; it’s a chance to start again with more wisdom and clarity. By reframing the past, women can move forward without fear.
Taking Action: Love requires effort. Rebecca urges women to expand their social circles, explore new experiences, and confidently embrace modern dating.
Trusting the Process: Gratitude and patience are crucial in attracting love. Instead of focusing on what’s missing, Rebecca helps women appreciate the good in their lives, allowing the right relationship to magnetize to them.
Rebecca’s own love story is evidence that you can find your soulmate after divorce. Through her coaching, books, and podcasts, she enables women to start believing in love again. The message is clear: love is not just for the lucky, but it’s for those who are happy and ready to receive it with courage and an open heart.
